By Logan Everett
If you have ever had a close bond with anybody, you may realize that relationships are difficult, and one relationship in particular (marriage) can be the most difficult of all – why is this and why is it important? I am sure you entered into marriage with the expectation of love lasting a lifetime. Vows and promises were shared in front of family and friends, you were introduced as husband and wife and you walked (or ran) to celebrate with your guests. After a moment of euphoria, you soon returned to your lives and responsibilities as a married couple.
Days go by and turn into months and years – where is your marriage? Would you drive your care 100,000 miles before getting an oil change? Would you go 25 years without a dental checkup? Would you have a physical exam only once in your lifetime? Your relationship deserves a checkup, too!
At times, we cannot perceive changes because they are gradual. We attempt to deny these truths, but we also want to believe that people in our lives will remain stable and predictable. Our egos want to believe that relationships can be mastered and will be forever glorious and meaningful. This is a common mistake that will eventually lead to disappointment.
Taking a snap shot of how our marriage looks today allows for more intimate connections, intentional communication and clearer understanding of our marriage tomorrow. You may be thinking it is about time to do something different – Here is your chance!
I am offering an opportunity for couples to explore the following areas in an upcoming 6-week class held at Groff & Associates: Professional Counseling:
- Finding Couple Strengths
- Communication & Conflict Resolution
- Sexual Intimacy & Financial Management
- Discovering God’s Plan for Marriage
- The Heart of Parenting & Emotional Connection
- Much More
For more information, contact me directly using the information below.
Logan Everett is a licensed marriage and family therapist associate and practices on the northeast side of Indianapolis. If you would like to contact Logan, please email [email protected] or call 474-6448 ext. 112.
