Commentary by Nikki Blaine
With her dramatic head-swinging hair along with the fancy fitted leg-baring jumpsuit, we have all grown to love or envy Beyoncé aka Sasha Fierce. How many years did this go on before she revealed the truth about her alter ego? Do you think its Beyoncé or her alter ego who enthralls us on stage? Whether you want to admit it or not, you will sit and watch Ms. Fierce perform because she is just that – fierce.
Now, this carries an interesting subject for discussion. Have you tapped into your alter ego? It’s the secret closet of mischief that only a few may really know about you. Surprisingly, some are just the opposite and have a meeker spirit within his or her subconscious personality. Have you tried to encompass both in your wardrobe? This may bring out an interesting side of you – especially if you are experiencing a need for transformation.
As the seasons change, so does your closet. Why not consider combining the two personalities? You may learn something new about self and actually grow to love it. Think about it. The alter ego is always the opposite of how everyone sees you. It’s usually the part of you that’s glowing inside and screaming for mercy to come out and play.
Allow me to share a little story with you. I have a friend who is a local stylist and she’s always over the top in her personal style. She was discussing an alter ego photo shoot with me and asked me to design her outfit as a stylist. Since I know her personality as being over the top, I’m thinking she’s going to push her style even more in the photo shoot. I was pleasantly surprised when she said her alter ego is a professional business woman. I was thinking, really? I know she views herself as the next Rachel Zoe (celebrity stylist, fashion designer, entrepreneur), but the business woman was a first for me. I was surprised by her alter ego. It makes sense, but it also brings out an interesting observation about friendships, associates and business partners. Perception is everything.
Do you think you are sending the correct nonverbal communication about who you are as a person? Maybe you need to filter your alter ego into your wardrobe more, so the real you can shine. Time for the Glam Chic Gal to sign off … until next time!